Back in the year 2006, I made a trip to Canberra for an admissions interview for medical school. I assumed I would book lodging when I arrived, however once I got there, a big convention was happening and every single youth hostels and budget accommodation had no vacancies.
Coming from Singapore, I considered maybe I could spend the night at the airport – only to discover the local airport, not like the one back home, does not operate 24 hours. Not knowing quite what to do and getting a bit desperate, I hopped on a bus into town and found myself drifting in the direction of the casino, thinking I might spend the night in a place that was open through the night. This was not ideal in the ideal condition for acing a crucial interview the following day, however, being a student on a tight budget, I couldn’t afford.
We could all use more folks who show such kindness.
Apparently, I appeared lost since a female student saw me walking aimlessly through the city and asked whether I needed help. I explained my predicament and without hesitation she offered I was welcome to sleep on the floor in her student dorm at the local university – which was perfect, given that my my medical school interview would take place the next morning. Generously, she also provided some food: a leftover filled rolls she brought back her part-time job. I was able to use warm shower facilities and a protected spot to rest for the evening.
Looking back, it’s clear to me what a big chance she took as a woman allowing a male stranger who was a complete stranger crash at her place. Back then I existed within my male privilege bubble and did not consider about things like that. Today, as a parent, I am astonished she took that chance – and remain deeply appreciative.
I never did attending the Australian National University, and I never saw her again, but her act remains etched in my mind that incredible gesture of generosity. It is my wish karma has returned her act of kindness abundantly. The world needs more individuals like that woman.
Award-winning investigative journalist with over 15 years of experience covering political and social issues across Europe.
Alexandra James
Alexandra James
Alexandra James
Alexandra James
Alexandra James